An unplanned pregnancy can make this time feel heavy. If someone begins pushing you toward abortion, those feelings can become even heavier. Remember: no one has the right to make this decision for you.
At Echoz, we provide free and confidential services so you can explore every option in a safe, non-judgmental space. Schedule your appointment today to talk with someone who truly cares.
1. The Conversation Feels Slanted
Pay attention to how others respond when you mention parenting or adoption. If a partner, friend, or family member quickly dismisses those ideas, changes the subject, or becomes visibly irritated—but remains calm and agreeable when abortion is mentioned—that’s a sign of pressure.
Even subtle cues can leave you feeling unheard and uncertain about your own instincts.
2. Their Support Comes With Strings
Sometimes, the people around you might offer help, such as money or emotional support, if you are leaning toward abortion, but show little interest in supporting you if you consider parenting or adoption.
Your choices deserve respect, especially as you’re weighing options and processing your unexpected pregnancy.
3. They Issue Threats or Control You
Pressure can escalate to control. If someone threatens to withdraw affection, financial help, or a place to live unless you choose abortion, that crosses the line. In some cases, this can become emotional or even physical abuse.
Everyone deserves to feel safe. If you ever feel threatened, you can reach the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 for help.
Your Decision, Your Timeline
People who care about you may speak out of their own fears or past experiences. However, this is your pregnancy and your future. You have the right to gather information and make a choice that reflects what you truly want.
Echoz offers education on all options and a supportive environment where you can think clearly without pressure. Whether you’re considering parenting, adoption, or abortion, we’ll ensure you can make an educated and informed decision.
Schedule your free appointment today. You are stronger than you realize and don’t have to face this moment alone.
FAQ:
Can someone force me to have an abortion?
No. The decision is legally yours, and only you have the right to make one.
What if I feel unsafe talking to my partner or family?
Help is available. You can contact trusted friends, a counselor, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233) for support.
Does Echoz perform abortions?
No. We do not provide or refer for abortions, but we offer accurate information about procedures, potential risks, and all of your options.
Can I come to Echoz without telling anyone?
Absolutely. All visits are confidential.